What does humility mean to you? The worldly definition is all about putting the needs of another person before your own, and thinking of others before yourself. It is a rare quality to find in this world anymore because pride is rampant these days. There are so many people concerned with their rights, rather than what is right. So how would Jesus define humility? Maybe something like, learning to decrease one's self so that Christ may increase in one's life. One of my favorite quotes is 'Humility is not thinking less of ourselves, but it is thinking of yourself less." C. S. Lewis
"True humility isn’t seeing ourselves as worthless but seeing the Lord as worthy of service no matter what assignment He gives us. No life lived in obedience to God is ever worthless or unimportant. When we stand before Him in heaven, our rewards will not be determined by how impressive our work was by human standards, but by how obedient we were to complete whatever He called us to do. True humility exalts Jesus Christ, not self. " [intouch.org]
A humble life is Spirit led. "Humility in the life of the believer is the mark of greatness—not because you shine when you are humbled, but because when you submit to God's will, He shines through you. We are not the light but the lanterns that point others to the Lord. Only as we decrease will those around us be able to see the Savior, who can give them eternal life." [intouch.org]
I needed this next bit of advice back in 2001. "Perhaps you are faced with a difficult situation but don't understand why God has chosen that avenue for you. Allow Him to use this time in your life to teach you how to be humble. Peter did just this. And he discovered that once humility accomplishes its perfect work, God will exalt us at the proper time . Blessing follows the obedience of a humbled heart." [intouch.org] In hindsight, I see the beauty of His work in my life, but it took a lot of cooperation on my part to be willing and obedient to His plan for me. Blessings have truly followed me all the days since. It doesn't mean freedom from hardship, but that He is with me through it all. The promise for true freedom is for the eternal future, not my present state.
"Will humble living be worth it? God accomplished His purposes through Jesus’ obedience. Similarly, living humbly—letting go of our sense of entitlement to embrace our humanity—puts us in the path of God’s work. If we have ears to hear the call to a humble life, to relinquish our own designs and embrace the kind of life our Savior modeled, we will find that He works in us “both to will and to work for His good pleasure” In the Master’s hands, our humility will become a tool for making us holy." [intouch.org]
Following Christ’s example of self-emptying sacrifice is more than ideal behavior—it’s the path to becoming our true selves. A spirit of humility...says I'm not perfect, I make mistakes and am open to criticism. It doesn't use authority as a means of superiority. Some think humility will show weakness and then they can't show genuine love, because they're trying to defend a falsehood of an impeccable image.
As for myself, humiliating circumstances have been God’s best path to developing humility in me—it’s something I remember with every challenge. It has not been easy to put my dreams, desires and abilities on hold till God grants me a new, fully restored body. Isn't it an ironic blessing that He still enables me to do His work through this blog? "We have to recognize that our relinquishment has more to do with our own kingdoms than with God’s." I have let go of much more than physical belongings, but of feelings of resentment and loss. I hope others will someday find that humility within themselves.
I like to think of humility in terms of riding as a passenger in a vehicle. You have relinquished your right to control, but are still vulnerable to any joy or consequences. You can respect the driver's plans and ways or create chaos and destruction. You can have peace or fear during the journey. You are either part of the plan or part of the problem. You rid yourself of what is unnecessary, harmful and not enough room for during the journey. Respect the driver, the rules of the road and you'll be okay.
How To Find Humility Within Ourselves:
1] Have a servant's heart and mind.
2] Trust in God's sovereignty.
3] Don't be wise in your own eyes.
4] Rejoice with others goodness.
5] Have a teachable spirit.
6] Encourage others.
7] Be in awe of grace given to you and forgive others.
What Humility Has Made Me Consider Personally:
1] Consider God's will for me.
2] How He has provided for me... in my care, finances, joy
3] This is temporary, not eternal
4] My focus is to be on Him, not my circumstances
5] He knows what's best for me, it's my choice in obedience to follow
6] Use my energy and time to share my testimony with others
7] It is all for His glory!
