Envy

     Social media and just everyday life can lead us down the path of comparison.  It's an easy, yet dangerous, road to take.  We want more, instead of being grateful for what we have.  It is rebellion against what God deems for our unique life.  You cannot live the life God created for someone else and your efforts to do so will lead to frustration, fatigue and failure.  "Envy is a destructive attitude that God outlawed in The Ten Commandments with 'Do not covet.'"

     Four harmful effects of envy.....[from A Purpose Driven Life]
---Envy denies your uniqueness
---Envy divides your attention
---Envy misuses your time and energy
---Envy leads you to other sins

    Instead of comparing ourselves with others, we must learn to be happy in the joys and successes of others.  If you think life should be fair and equal for all, then you're doubting God's goodness to you.  'Envy is the enemy of contentment.'
    You might ask where this post all derived from. Well I am subject to the sin of envy too and these days stuck at home makes it more prevalent.  I am prone to the envy of my abilities of my past and the tasks of others on facebook.  That is when I have to stop and be grateful for all I do have and take into account the new abilities I have now.  No, I don't want the power to go off to force me into counting my blessings.  I have much and others are praying now for the things I take for granted.
   ''The next time you start to rant about God’s unfairness to you, remind yourself of these facts:
 1. Everything I have is an undeserved gift from God. I wouldn’t even exist if it weren’t for God’s grace. The next breath of air I take is a gift of God.
2. I don’t know what God knows and I can’t see what God sees, so I should trust him.
3. Life on earth is unfair because of sin, not because of God. Our rebellion against God has broken everything on the planet. This isn’t heaven, where everything works perfectly. Nothing works perfectly here.
4. God sent Jesus to save us from the judgment day when he will balance the books, right all wrongs, and administer justice.
5. It was not fair for Jesus to die in my place for my sins. But he did.''
    James 3;16  '' For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.''

Warren, Rick (2012-10-23). The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? (Purpose Driven Life, The) (p. 421). Zondervan. Kindle Edition.

Not Now

     Isn't this how it always happens?  Not just with waiters, but the dentist too.  Do you really want me to answer and choke to death?
    'Eating and swallowing are complex neuromuscular activities consisting essentially of three phases, an oral, pharyngeal and esophageal phase. Each phase is controlled by a different neurological mechanism.' Swallowing is one of those things we take for granted but many people struggle with it due to stroke, alzheimers or neurological disease.  Anybody can have this problem due to being in a hurry and not chewing their food well.
     Here are some tips to help with any swallowing problems that you or someone you know might find helpful..........

--Try eating smaller, more-frequent meals. Be sure to cut your food into smaller pieces, and eat at a slower pace.
--Avoid sticky foods, like peanut butter and popcorn
--Liquids like milk or carbonated drinks cause phlegm
--Use something like yogurt w/meals to help with food that seems to get caught in your throat
--Try not to talk while eating....finish your bite first
--If you struggle with a certain food, avoid it...it's not worth it.

CHRISTmas

        What does Christmas mean to you?  Is it Santa, gifts, shopping, or family gatherings?  As the caption says, 'Christmas begins with Christ.'  Everything you associate with Christmas is just nothing without the Savior's birth.
        Our culture and society does so much to take Christ out of everything.  I think it's especially offensive at Christmas time.  Sometimes when my hand is tired of typing, I am tempted to type 'X-mas' but I reject that thought and don't do it.  Christ is what it is all about.  I support the effort to say 'Merry Christmas', not 'Happy Holidays.'  Nativity scenes should be allowed anywhere, including at the government buildings.  Who is offended?  God mostly by our lack of acknowledging His greatest gift of all.
      Christmas chrIStmas cHrIStmas CHRISTMAS  [Christmas is His christmas]

THE Free Gift

     As Christmas approaches, I've gathered together a box of gifts for friends and kids.  It's not much but just a little something to show I care.
    The most important thing I can give on a regular basis is the sharing of my faith to all here on my blog.  Jesus is the gift above all gifts.  He will not fade, get old or wear out.  People try to fill the void in their lives with material things but it never fulfills the true longing in their hearts.  If people would quit avoiding Jesus in their lives, He will fill that void.
   Here below are some verses on the gift of salvation and eternal life thru Jesus Christ.....

1 John 5:11
And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. (NIV)

Romans 6:23
For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (NASB)

John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (NIV)

Titus 3:4-7
But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs according to the hope of eternal life. (NKJV)

John 10:27-28
My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can snatch them away from me. (NLT)

1 Timothy 1:15-17
Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst. But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life. Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory for ever and ever. Amen. (NIV)

Snowmen In

     We are all getting in the Christmas spirit as we put out all the snowmen on this wonderful 70 degree day.  Thanks to Karla and my parents for all their hard work.

God's Patience

     Oh what a tangled web we weave when we attempt to deceive.  Sin begins in our mind and then we try to justify it with our warped thoughts.  One thing you can be sure of is God never changes, nor do His rules of right and wrong.
    I think the verse above addresses how our rationalizing thoughts are wrong.  We can think that if an immediate and visible consequence doesn't occur after we sin, then we either got away with it or God understood our side.  Wrong, that's your sinful self talking to you.  I heard a robber on tv saying he asked God to not let him get caught just one more time.  I can guarantee you that his request won't be answered. God will not let sin go unanswered.
    God sent His Son to answer for all the sin in the world.  His patience in waiting for you to accept it is indescribable.

Time

     Time is one of those things that we all take for granted.  We've got it, then it's gone and we don't know where it went.  Garth Brooks sums it up by singing, 'I'm too young to be this dang old.'  Where does the time go?  I think about my younger years when I didn't leave the house till 9pm and grumbled about being in by 12am because that's when things got really fun.  Although I'm still a night owl, going out after dark is not appealing as it once was.
    Time is like a river and it will not stop and wait for you.  I say this to encourage you to get out there this month and enjoy all the Christmas shows, events and get togethers.  There is probably no busier month in the year so don't stay home and miss out.  Don't end the year with 'I coulda, shoulda, woulda' gone but I just didn't and the opportunity is now gone.

Trying

     Do you ever feel this way?  We try our best but it just doesn't seem good enough.  I've felt this way when recovering from sickness and my patience is at a low point.  You just have to tell yourself that you're doing all you can and that's good enough.  Trust in God's timing is good enough to get us thru all our trials.
    Some people tell this quote to God because they are relying on their works and efforts to be 'good' in order to be saved.  'No one is good, no not one.' No matter how hard you try, you will not be saved thru money, charitable works or your rationalizing ideas. "For by GRACE you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God..." Eph. 2:8-9.
    What you should be trying really hard at is surrendering your will to His.  Faith in Jesus' life, death and resurrection is the only good enough reason to get you into heaven.
 

What Burns You

Proverbs 25;28  ''Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.''

     One of the fruits of the spirit is self control.  How is your handle on it?  Are you a match ready to be lit or are you a watched pot that never boils?  Self control is only controlled by self.  You can blame others for setting you off but your reaction is only in your control.

     Proverbs 16:32  ''Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city.''
    ''Patience is something you admire in the driver behind you and scorn in the one ahead.''--Mac McCleary
     ''How can a society that exists on instant mashed potatoes, packaged cake mixes, frozen dinners, and instant cameras teach patience to its young?''--Paul Sweeney

     You can see the lack of self control in our society by the amount of violence around us.  Guns settle arguments all too often, instead of civil conversation. 'Ain't nobody got time for that' is our code phrase for lack of patience.
     May your self control be intact regardless of the amount of heat that is on you.

Look Around

     Yes, I am surrounded by God's blessings to me.  As I look around, I can see things given to me by different people and am reminded of their part in my life.  Everything in your life can cause a moment of memory reflection, if you give it the time.  Pictures can account for a thousand words and show you God's faithfulness.
    As we celebrate Thanksgiving, take the time to count your blessings of the past and present.  We take so much for granted, but we'd certainly notice if those things were gone.  Let's give thanks for what He has given and taken away....it's all for our good.

A Little Brighter

   
     Sometimes the dreariness of winter needs a little brightness added to it.  I've thought my recent pictures looked dull and drab, especially with my mousy-looking hair.  So off to the salon I went today for highlights and a needed haircut.  While I was there, I ran into two people I don't see very often, Rebekah and my aunt Corene.  I think this was a God-thing and a good reward for stepping out of my comfort zone to do something a little different.
     God opens doors to give us opportunities, we just have to walk through them.  Sharing our lives with others is one way of showing how God is working in our lives.  It inspires people to see others out and about, especially if they've heard of your recent trials.

Dale's FBF Welcome Home

   
     I am a delegater.  Sure I'd like to do things myself, but reality says otherwise.  Some people are too proud to ask for help, but I try to leave that in God's hands.  Tonight, we welcomed home a church member who has just returned from a 5 month deployment.  All I did was come up with the idea, get the cake and delegate to wonderful volunteers.  Well it's a good thing I wasn't in charge of decorating, because my simple thoughts were a banner and balloons.  Beth took her artistic talents and ran with her decorating ideas to a level beyond my imagination.  It was wonderful, beautiful and very classy.  She came up with a creative gift that we all could sign and say 'Thanks Dale.'
    I can truly say Dale was honored and appreciative.  His words were 'humbled and thankful.'  I think he was a little overwhelmed by the spotlight being put on him, but that's okay.  All servicemen and women should be shown a little love and appreciation by all Americans.  Freedom is never free, but requires all kinds of sacrifice.  Thank you Dale for your service and sacrifice of being away from family and our church family

these 5 months......... and for your service over the past 20 years.

Reflect?

     Okay, so this is a funny Thanksgiving caption, but I think there's more to it.  Do our words really reflect who we are?
     We can say one thing that sounds good, but in our heart lies bitterness.  Are we lying to ourselves or are we lying to save face?  I think this is where gossip and hurt feelings begin.  As with these turkeys, there is a motive in our words.  Sometimes people pretend to be something they are not just to fit in with the crowd around them, but that doesn't make it real.
     So, if you say you're a Christian....do your words reflect it?  Or is the world blind to your claims and hears something else?  You're talk and your walk must coincide to reflect the true you...good or bad.

Recital Video

     For those of you who weren't able to attend the recital or don't have facebook, here is my video performance of 'Nearer my God to Thee.'  This was my first time to have music lessons to learn to play without sheet music.  Despite being in the hospital and having the recital a month earlier than usual, Phillip and I got this video done on the first try.  I hope this video inspires you to push thru your trials, get it done, and give God the glory.  'All things are possible thru Christ alone.'

If you get this post by email, the video may not show...go to www.angiesthatsthat.blogspot.com

Friends at Betsy's House

Charity, Karla, my mom, September, Betsy
Charlene, Angie, Jessica

       These are some of my rock solid friends who gathered together yesterday at Betsy's house.  We ate a wonderful lunch and had a good time of fellowship together.  There were also 13 kids, who all played well together.

       There is a big difference between friends and people you know.  Friends know and accept your ups and downs, your flaws, and your weaknesses.  Normally I won't take my air machine and use it with mixed company, even if I need it, but with this group of friends I felt more at ease.  Some of them may feel the same way with like nursing.  You feel accepted, no matter what.

      The bond of friendship is a blessing.  I am blessed by many but these ladies are on the extra special list.

Welcome Home, Dale

     Don't we all like to know we were missed while we were away?  Service members are often pulled away from their families and lives as part of their jobs and call to duty.  The fact that it is in the 'contract' doesn't make it any easier to be apart from loved ones.
    My friend, Dale, just returned today from a 5 month deployment overseas.  The Baker family, Karla, my mom, 5 co-workers, and his parents all met Dale at the airport.  I think Dale was a little surprised but totally appreciative of the support.
    As little MacKenzie held her sign as we waited, she said ''Where is he?  My arms are tired.''  She never let go of it and was the best lil sign holder there.  I know the 5 months were a long and tiring wait for Dale but I hope today's welcome home showed our appreciation for his service and sacrifice.

Excuses

    Yes, you can make an excuse to get out of anything, but is it legit?  We think if we make an excuse to get out of a problem then the problem goes away...wrong.  We've only deflected the problem to someone else. 'When someone truly cares, they make an effort not an excuse.'
    Why do we make excuses?  I think it's because our heart just isn't in it.  I think excuses work exponentially, we come up with one then another and another.  We talk ourselves out of doing things much easier than why we should do them.  It is our selfish self that prevails at the crossroad all too often.
    Worldly desires are often why people make excuses to surrendering their lives to God.  The focus is on what is seen rather than the unseen, which is Biblically backwards.  Someday may never come for some, but today just never seems right either.  When is the time going to be right?  There is no time like the present and we are not promised tomorrow.

Be Thankful

Luke 17; 11-19  ''Now on his way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee.  As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called out in a loud voice, “Jesus, Master, have pity on us!” When he saw them, he said, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were cleansed. One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him—and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?”  Then he said to him, “Rise and go; your faith has made you well.”


      Are you in the 10 percent who thanks God for what He has done for you?  Or are you in the 90 percent, who takes it all for granted?  Oh, how we always want more from Him, but how lacking we are to be genuinely thankful for all that we have been given so far.
      ''We ought to give thanks for the favours Christ bestows upon us, and particularly for recoveries from sickness; and we ought to be speedy in our returns of praise, and not defer them, lest time wear out the sense of the mercy. It becomes us also to be very humble in our thanksgivings, as well as in our prayers.''
     Ingratitude is a common sin.  Have you ever given someone a gift and been discouraged by the lack of acknowledgement for it, as well as the lack of a thank you?  The Lord has given so much to the people of this world, and yet there is a conscious effort to take Him out of everything.  Where is 'our grateful heart with an outstretched hand that blesses His name?'
    May we throw ourselves at Jesus' feet and thank Him, like the Samaritan, with praise for all that He has done, is doing, and will do in our lives.

What He'd Say?

    His thoughts and ways are way above mine, but I think He would quote scripture that needed to be repeated once again to me.  I would be reminded that all control is His and my attempts at control are of no influence.  I would be encouraged to follow the path He has laid out for me and not to try to steer myself off that path.  I would be commanded to continue to love others as He has loved me.  He would comfort me by telling me that all my hardships are part of His plan and bringing Him glory.  He would finally say, ''Angie, my child and friend, one day you will be with Me and all that I have promised will become clear to you.  Until then, keep telling others about Me.''  

   What would your conversation be like?  One of blessed assurance or one of regrets?

The Ark's Lessons

        I think these lessons from the Ark points to the fact that there is meaning in every aspect of the Bible. The more we study it, the more we will draw from it and learn from it.  ''All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.'' — 2 Timothy 3:16
       These 11 lessons in the caption above deal with circumstances that we have all dealt with in our lives.  1]The big picture of God's plan, 2] feeling alone, 3] setting goals, 4] healthy living, 5] procrastination, 6] having a firm foundation, 7] survival skills, 8] patience in your pace, 9] maintaining calm in your life, 10] don't belittle your efforts and impact, and 11] trust in God despite your situation.
      ''The Bible will still be the Book of all books when all the other writings of men throughout the centuries have passed into obscurity.  Let’s open the gates and let the Bible speak in its own defense.''