Purpose

     'Lord, I do not know what tomorrow will bring, but You do and that's enough.'  Is that enough for you?  We are not meant to understand everything but having faith provides the bridge between the seen and the unseen.
     Below are a few quotes that I hope will make you think about your purpose here.

     'Don't be afraid, just believe.'  Mark 5;36
     'Let the beloved of the world, rest secure in Him.'  Deuteronomy 33;12     
    "We need men so possessed by the Spirit of God that God can think His thoughts through our   minds, that He can plan His will through our actions, that He can direct His strategy of world evangelization through His Church." ~ Alan Redpath
     'Non-Christians don't read the Bible, they read Christians.'
     'Purpose is found in those quiet moments when no one but God sees the work of your hands.'
     'The purpose of life is a life of purpose.'

    Don't ask yourself 'why am I here?' but ask yourself 'what should I be doing?'  Make the most of your purpose driven life.

Class

 
    Okay, I'm going to try to write this post with 'class' but I don't guarantee anything.  I think there should be a class on 'class' because it's a rare find.  We all try to have class but of the three things above, we usually fail in one area.
    'Knowing what to say' is the first step.  Is it true, helpful, important, necessary, kind......THINK it thru first.  Always be encouraging and kinder than necessary.  Sure there have been times I've wanted to use this blog to vent but is that really what I want to pass on to others?  No.  What I say should uplift others.
    'When to say it' is important because timing can be everything.  Just because it popped in your head doesn't mean it's always the right time for it to pop out of your mouth.  Sometimes I have to be careful that my blog post isn't reflective of a recent event and therefore someone could take it personally.
     'When to stop' is the hardest for people, I think.  Get to the point or you're going to lose me halfway.  People get caught up in the details when the listener just wants the overall picture.  Some people think my blogs are too short, while others like the brevity of them.  I think we remember things better that are short and that make us think, like Psalm 23 or the chorus of a hymn.
     So I can say for myself that my writing might be in a more upper class form than my everyday speech but that just proves how if we 'think' about our words then we can be a little classier.

It's a God Thing

    I wanted to follow-up last week's blog about switching to my mask air machine with a little more on how it has helped me.  'It's a God thing' that I am able to use my machine in the car, shopping in Canton, concerts, etc.  It allows me to enjoy events without even thinking about being short of breath, like most of you. The portability of it allows me a much broader range to venture out. I can save my energy for what I want to do, rather than use it all up getting there.  It refuels my oxygen level and gives me more energy.  It's a comforting thought to know it is near by when I need a boost.  It's kind of like when football players use oxygen on the sidelines to recharge for the next play, but mine is just regular air not oxygen.
    It is also like Jesus always being near to us but we have to turn to Him.  He can also refuel us, comfort us and give us strength to carry on.

Duck Dynasty

    This is Phil from the show, Duck Dynasty.  I don't know why I'm hooked on this show but the redneck girl in me is.  It's funny yet not so pleasing to the eye.  They have a good faith based message in every episode as they gather around the table together for dinner.  I guess it shows that everyone can share the gospel with others in their own unique way.
     I think the popularity of the show points to what people would like to watch on television.  We want clean humor with a life message.  I think the History channel's 'The Bible' is also popular right now because of the seeking of our hearts to understand The Word.  Hopefully it will turn people to the written Word because the Book is always better and truer than the movie.
     God cares about our hearts and what it shares with others more than anything else.

I See It This Way

    How we see life and death is a great testimony to others.  Do you view them from an earthly or heavenly perspective?
    Life is not just about the here and now.  It's not about what you can get out of it either.  It is about the purpose in which God made you, to do here for Him.  Life is a series of joys and trials that hopefully will draw on your need of a Savior.  We can use our gifts and blessings to enrich the lives of others instead of living in a 'me' state of mind.  It is said, 'when I get to heaven, I want to have no talent left because I used it all up here to further the Kingdom.'
    Death is not just an end but a new beginning.  For believers, it is something we anticipate with joy and hope.  My friend lost his mother suddenly this past week and despite the grief, he openly praised the Lord that she was with Him now.  The Bible promises us that we will one day be resurrected like Jesus was, because He conquered the grave.  'Death has lost it's sting and become a victory.'
    2 Corinthians 2;14-16  ''But thanks be to God, who always leads us as captives in Christ’s triumphal procession and uses us to spread the aroma of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are to God the pleasing aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. To the one we are an aroma that brings death; to the other, an aroma that brings life.''
    May your life and perspective be a light to the world that makes others want to turn to it.

Not on the Go

   Yes, I need these kind of days every so often.  I don't want four weeks in a row of it but just occasionally.  I think it's good for you.  Spending quiet time reading my devotionals this morning gives me time to think and listen to God's whispers to me.  I've also spent time this morning just laughing to myself at all the funny captions I've found on the pinterest website.  Some I will share with you on future blog posts and some just personally hit my funny bone.
    Yes, I know it's a pretty, sun shiny day but I'm not one to be on the go all the time.  I've been there, done that and my body and soul have felt the after-shocks.  I guess I'm kind of like my computer battery, I work better with a regular recharge than to burn out all that I have saved up.
    Psalm 62: 1-2 ''Truly my soul finds rest in God; my salvation comes from him. Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.''

Bad Hair

    Who hasn't had a bad hair day?  Have you ever woke up looking like Don King? [not my uncle but the boxing promoter.. lol]  Some days there is just not enough gel in the world to calm the static on your head.  Of course, if you wanted a little volume and lift then your hair is going to be limp as a wet noodle.
    Our hair is a big part of how we define ourselves.  We go to great lengths to cut it, curl it, tease it, and style it in various ways.  We often take it for granted until we start to lose it due to age, illness or medication.  Then we freak out or at least I did when it happened to me for a short while.  Humbling comes in all forms and sometimes out of left field.
     There are so many things in life that we don't realize how important they are to us till they're gone.  Take a moment today to be thankful for all the things you have, like hair even if it's not as much these days, before they're gone for good.

It's a God Thing

    Sometimes in life people will try to convince you something is right, when you know good and well it's wrong.  This could be a moral issue or a physical issue.  It is up to you to stick to your guns and say 'No, it's not right.'
    I think it was the Monday after Halloween weekend of 2004 that my doctor put me in ICU.  How sick was I?  I wore my nightgown and leggings to the Dr's office, now that's pretty sick.  This was when I transitioned from my old machine to my mask machine to help my breathing.  I did fine on the hospital's machine but when the medical home supplier brought a machine for me to use at home, it didn't feel right.  I told the lady it didn't feel the same and I couldn't breathe with it.  She told me I just needed to get used to it.  At that moment, 'it was a God thing' that my doctor came in and heard the discussion.  He asked her if she had calibrated the machine before bringing it to me.  She said No and he lit into her like a match to gasoline.  A new calibrated machine was brought over and I could breathe comfortably with it and be discharged to go home in a few days.
    2 Timothy 1;7  ''For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.''
    [I think I've shared this story before but I thought it was worth repeating.  Don't settle for less than you expect in what you think is right.]

Sparkle

    Okay, if you know me at all then you know I love a little bling.  I think a little sparkle can spruce up anything that seems plain.  It catches the eye with it's shiny illumination.
    Don't you want your life to add a little sparkle into the lives of others?  How can we add sparkle?  Your smile should be contagious.  Your mood should be uplifting.  Your actions should be inspiring.  Your words should be encouraging and motivating.
    I think when our hearts and our actions are together in a Spirit led mind then we will leave a little sparkle wherever we go.  The beauty of a diamond is formed by pressure so let the pressures of your daily life turn you into something just as shiny and beautiful.

The Circle of Life

   The circle of life is often not pleasant and a harsh lesson in humility.  We think 'that' won't happen to me but time is the true revealer.  I've heard two stories recently about caregivers dealing with moments that were far from comfortable.  So, I thought I'd give a few humbling points.

   1.  Your body is just like everybody else's, it's your pride that makes you think you're different.
   2.  Whatever has been an embarrassing moment has happened to someone else before you.
   3.  Learn from your experiences and next time it will be better.
   4.  Pride is concerned with who is right, Humility is concerned with what is right.
   5.  Humility is a fertile soil that grows spiritual fruit.
   6.  Being kind is often better than being right when helping others.

   Humility is a tricky thing, just when you think you've got it is right when you lost it.  Be nice and full of mercy when helping others, you never know when you'll be on the receiving end.

The Week

    It's Monday so let's start the week off with a positive attitude.  Let's look for the good in everything that comes our way.  Don't look to see if the glass is full or not, but instead be glad you have a glass.
    I personally am feeling good and have high hopes for the week.  'My future's so bright, I gotta wear shades.'

Never Changes

    The world is often one big marketing strategy.  The Bible says 'there is nothing new under the sun.'  So we just put a new spin on the same old thing and call it new.  Today's topic was sparked by my hair gel.  The last time I bought it, it was Aussie Sydney Smooth but now it's Aussie Miraculously Smooth.  There was no miracle done in the lab to make it any better, nor does it do any miracle on my hair.  It's the same stuff with a flashier name to get me to buy it.
    The Bible never changes.  People often take away or add to its message to make it more appealing to us but that is wrong.  The Word of God is what is and that's enough.  The church today often tries to turn worship into entertainment but what our souls really need is the Truth, plain and simple.  We will all be held accountable to what the Bible says, not what our culture deems as right or wrong.

Spur One Another

   


     Don't we all like unexpected good surprises?  I was awakened by a friend this morning dropping off an easter present for me.  She was putting 'encourage and build each other up' into action.  She was also letting me know that her thoughts were with me even tho we hadn't seen each other in bible study lately.
     Hebrews 10;24-25  'And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.'
     Our lives do get busy but we should never grow weary in doing good.  A little effort goes a long ways in a recipient's heart.  Love isn't love until you give it away.  As we all like the getting, we should love giving even more.

Cross references:

1. Hebrews 10:24 : S Tit 2:14
2. Hebrews 10:25 : Ac 2:42
3. Hebrews 10:25 : Heb 3:13
4. Hebrews 10:25 : S 1Co 3:13

It's a God Thing

    Have you ever felt the flame of the fire without getting burned?  I think God lets us know we've done wrong as a warning without pouring all of His wrath upon us.  His mercy is defined as withholding what we deserve and we should be grateful.
    So let us rewind down memory lane back to my Levy cruising days.  Let me just preface this as a one time learned lesson, not a habit repeated.  My two friends and I were in the front seat of my Honda Prelude with bucket seats.  We got pulled over by a cop and found out it was illegal to have three people in the front seat.  Who knew?  Well we all had to exit the vehicle so he could look in the car.  Well on this one night, we had split a wine cooler between us.  We were all thinking about the trouble we'd be in if he found it.  It was a 'God thing' of mercy that the empty bottle had rolled out of sight way up under the driver' seat.  Oh yeah, I felt the heat because I did get a ticket and had to go to court but I didn't get burned.
     Mercy is priceless.

Tomorrow

     This caption has been my daily motto for awhile now.  I've been stuck in a holding pattern of sickness or what one may see as forced captivity at home.  I haven't lost hope because I do know there will be a tomorrow coming to look forward to here on earth and eternally.
     We must not see our bad day as having a bad life.  There are no rainbows without the rain.  The trials we encounter help us to appreciate the joys even more.  Trials also help us to see our weaknesses more clearly by being up close and personal.  We can therefore see our desperate need for our Healer, Comforter, and Savior through these moments.  Where there is faith there is hope and where there is hope there are His promises about our tomorrows.
      'Tomorrow, tomorrow, I love ya. You're only a day away.'

Who?

      Who does this?  Seriously, I see it but wonder what they are thinking.  The odds of you seeing people you know goes up exponentially with how bad you look.  Oh but the rollers let them know you're going to look great later right...lol.
      You can never make a second first impression.  I encourage people to care about how they look.  A lot can be said for clean, decent and appropriate in the way you care for your appearance.  Are you the 'Pigpen' of the Peanuts gang?  Cologne can never beat a bar of soap and water...just sayin'.

4 Good Things

     This caption yells out to me 'Ding Ding, Ding Ding'.  It all points to living your authentic self with others.  You can be true to yourself without an obtrusive approach.
     Pretending...... you can only act for so long.  Your true colors will bleed thru eventually. Be who you are meant to be, not the crowd's wannabe.
     Depending..... love without expecting.  God loved us while we were still sinners.  His love isn't dependent on ours.
     Defending.... not a word is heard when you're building your case in your head.  Ears can't be shut like our mouths for a reason.
     Offending.....  reword it.  You can make your point without making an enemy.  Say it nice or just keep your advice.

Happy or Not?

     I heard on the news last night, Arkansas was ranked 46 out of the 50 states where people were the least happy.  Really?  Happiness is a choice, it's not by chance.  If your happiness is dependent on your circumstances, then your life will crash as often as a wave hits the shore.
    'Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one remembers to turn the Light on.'  The peace of God will sustain you.  As I wind up my third week of being sick, I could be bitter or better for this down time.  I choose better and that starts with the quality of my thoughts.
     If you're not happy, look within.  Then look above and count your blessings.  Lastly, help yourself by helping someone else be happy.

Come On In

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         ''If you knew Jesus was coming to visit you at your house tonight, would you run to the door to welcome him with open arms, or would you (we) need to rush around to hide some things. What do you have in your home that you (we) would be ashamed for him to find?''

         This was a post from my cousin, Gina, on her facebook page and I thought it was a good point to ponder.  Everything we have and own belong to God but would He want to claim it?  Music and movie collections, are they an encouragement to the soul?  Is your home an example of earthly hoarding or an example of humble giving?

         It's okay to surround yourself with things you enjoy and make you happy but there are limits to one's greed and self indulgence.  We must give our first fruits to God, not the leftovers.  'In my house, we will serve the Lord.'  It's not just a saying but should be a way of life.

It's a God Thing

     Today is my friend's birthday, David Nosek.  When I moved back here, he was one of a couple of people that took me under their wing to make my transition smoother.  Our first outing was a Natalie Merchant concert.  It was fun to go with someone who enjoyed her music as much as I did.  We've also enjoyed movies, hockey games, new restaurants and shopping in Memphis excursions.  Friends are ones that even tho you may see them less, you know they're there and can be counted on no less.
     'It's a God thing' that David took the time and effort back then for me when I needed it most.  Showing God's love to others in whatever way you can is a great way to serve as a Christian.  Don't expect it to always be easy and problem free either.  David and I have unspoken of stories that shall remain that way but what's important is the friendship that's stayed intact through it all.
     Happy Birthday David.  I know God brings people into our lives with a purpose that He wants fulfilled.  Thanks for stepping up to the plate.

FBF PRAYER REQUESTS..MARCH 2013

FBF PRAYER REQUESTS FOR MARCH 2013

PHILIP AND SANDRA PRIME
1. Pray for our baptismal service on the 3rd of March. We could have 5 or so who would want to be baptized: Lilia and her son Pablo; A young gal Denise; a young man Jesús; another young man also named Jesús; and possibly a few more. Pray that the Lord would help us to give them wise counsel.

2. Please pray for the visa and vehicle situation here in Mexico.

Changes in the Mexican Visa laws are forcing all foreigners who reside (or plan on residing) in Mexico for the long-term, to apply for residency.  The new law is forcing us to either legalize (import) our van or sell it in the US and buy a Mexican one.

I have been told by two different agencies (non-government) that deal with the importation of vehicles that it is not possible to import the Bookmobile. I am still waiting on one other agency to finish their investigation into the matter.

MARTIN AND HANSY TUOHY

1. The vehicle we have been using needs new license plates to remain legal. There has been many delays in getting them. Please pray we are able to get them by the end of this week.

2. Till Easter camps we have will be traveling quite a bit on the weekends, visiting other churches here in MX. Please pray for travel mercies and ability to minister well to each of the churches.

3. Wisdom is needed as we prepare to pack up here in Puruandiro. Are we packing for good or just so that we can return once we have tied up loose ends in Denmark?

4. Salvation of young family whom we are studying with.I beg your prayers for my oldest sister, Carmen (the mother of Kena). Thursday of last week, 5:30 am, she fainted, felt from the second floor, hit a pot with her head, destroyed one of her knees, and God graciously spared her life! 

 

MONICA SERNATINGER AND QUICO

I beg your prayers for my oldest sister, Carmen (the mother of Kena). Thursday of last week, 5:30 am, she fainted, felt from the second floor, hit a pot with her head, destroyed one of her knees, and God graciously spared her life!
    She got stiches in her head, and last Friday had knee surgery. This week Quico and I spent a few days in Celaya helping care for her. She is doing well and her pains have resided greatly, and she told us repeatedly to have felt so loved by us.  I am still very concerned about her salvation. She is a very devout Catholic who confesses to have put her trust in Christ as her Savior, and that if she would have died, she is sure she would spent eternity in heaven; but also she will forever trust in the intercession on the Virgin Mary for her daily walk and eternity. I left some literature with her and she says to daily read Our Daily Bread devotional. May the Lord give her true understanding of Christ amazing and sufficient grace.
    My health and energy have been so much better. Thank you for your faithful prayers!!!

DENNY NORRIS
We are so grateful for how God is working among the youth in Cannon Beach. Each week we are meeting in the home of one of the church families (we usually fill up the host’s home) as we study through the gospel of John. Besides the Bible study, we recite memory verses, report on Bible reading, pray, have a question and answer time and eat a snack. There is an enthusiasm among them that is contagious… and the families in the church feel blessed to host them. They also have a passion for their lost friends and relatives.

Thanks so much for praying for the quinceañera celebration; the name of Christ was both exalted and proclaimed. Both the fifteen old year girl and her father gave their testimonies.
 

 

 

Waiting

    Who can't relate to this?  Hurry up is what's on everyone's mind.  Are we mindful of others when it's our turn?  I think some people think the handicapped stall is the upgraded area for all to use.  I'm here to say 'it is not'.  When there is a 5 to 1 ratio of regular stalls to an accessible one, you better wait for one of the five.  I am not very patient when I've had to wait on a person that could have used any of the other stalls and this one is my only option.   Your big purse, your tight space phobia, nor it being a phone booth makes you eligible as handicapped.
     'Patience is the companion of wisdom.'  Is it wise to lose our patience?  Not usually.  Our attitude during the wait is what the world sees in us most.  'The meek will inherit the earth' so we must humble ourselves.  Time will not wait for anyone but we must wait for the right timing in the impatient moments.

3 Important Bones

     There are 206 bones in the human body.  They all bear weight, make you stable and give your body it's form.  Reba lists three other bones that are just as essential to success in our lives.
      The wishbone.  We need hope in our lives.  We need something to strive for in the race of life.  'The reason the damned in hell cease acting toward an alteration of their state; despair has taken hold of them.'  When our wishes are conveyed through sincere prayers, they are more likely to come true.
      The backbone.  You have to stand up for yourself.  Your rights, your respect due to you and your beliefs.  Wishy washy is not an option with success. You either get in the game or get on the bench.  As I am often a patient in the healthcare system, I know standing up for what will or will not work for me puts my stubborn backbone to the test.
     The funnybone.  Life is not as serious when you can laugh at yourself.  A sense of humor is one of the most desired characteristics in a person.  A cheerful soul brings joy to others.  Laughter is one of the best medicines so  live, love, and laugh often.
     Enjoy success with these three bones that give hope, convictions and joy in this fallen world.

My Spot

    I think this caption is a true reflection of me the past couple of weeks.  I'm in my favorite place to be and eating everything within reach.  Do you have a favorite chair or an area just to call 'your space'?  It is comforting to be there and can conform to your body's needs like a glove.
    Now we do have to be on guard of becoming a couch potato.  'You don't have to move fast but you do have to move.'  A big risk of the flu is the development of pneumonia due to inactivity.  Pushing yourself within reason can benefit you as much as rest will.  It's a balancing act.
    As I miss out on the fun activities of this weekend, I will focus on the joys of my still moments.  I'm eating like a fat queen, I'm comfortable, I'm not in pain, I'm content with my circumstances, I've got my bed buddy [Tiger] by my side, and I have hope that this too shall pass

The Journey

     How would you rate your journey thus far?  Smooth, bumpy, full of detours?  We are each a product of our individual journey and it has shaped us in many ways.  I personally am an 'A to B' type of traveler.  I like to know where I'm headed and the shortest way to get there.  Life doesn't work that way, does it?  It is said, 'A truly happy person enjoys the scenery on a detour.'   Okay, that's never happened in my life..lol.
     If we don't learn from the pitfalls of our journey, we are most likely to end up in a rut.  The lessons of life are meant to teach us in our weakest areas.  I would say 'patience' is a big theme of mine and these two weeks of flu sickness is not a detour I would've chosen.  It has taught me to put my agenda on hold and let the Lord work on me...in His timing.
    Don't rush your journey and the process that is working in you.  You're right where you need to be.

Again?

     Do you ever think 'oh great, here we go again' when you face a problem for the second or third time?  I think we often remember how hard it was to overcome and how long it took, rather than the steadfastness of the Lord's faithfulness.  We remember the pain or hardship of a problem and not the glory that shined through it.  Strength shows itself stronger through our sufferings.
     'The Lord will provide' in all circumstances.  Our clearest view of the future is reflecting on God's past work in our lives.  Have you ever really done without?  Doubtful, unless a prideful heart interfered.  Everything happens for a reason, it's not coincidence.
     I encourage you to take a look into your past and see how trusting God overpowered any worry or fear you had with a problem.  It's like in the Footprints poem, 'Where were You when I needed You most?  I carried you.'

It's a God Thing

     Do you ever stop to think about where you were born and raised?  Of all the places in the world I could have been placed, I know 'It's a God thing' that I was born in the USA and the South.  There is no other country more free and blessed by God, despite the attempts to shut Him out.  It is the land of opportunity and people flock here to make their dreams come true.
    Being in the South has it's blessings too.  Seasons change but are here just long enough to make you ready for the next.  Southern hospitality is embedded into daily life that is a true southern comfort.  Sweet tea, how could I live without it?
    Hearing the struggles of third world countries, like Haiti, helps me be more thankful that God put me where I could thrive for Him best.  I was born in a small town, Conway, and I prefer being a lil fish in a lil pond.

Not Lonely

    I am a people person but that doesn't mean I dislike being alone at times.  We should all learn to handle being by ourselves and we will then be even better when around others.  I can feel more alone in a crowded room than an empty house.

    A lot of people feel the need to have some sort of distraction present to fill the silence of a room, like constant tv or music.  I think that can be a negative thing.  Are you ever alone with your thoughts?  Can you hear God's whispers above the noise?  Some people sleep with earplugs to get a good night's rest but sometimes we should try a daytime pair to block out the world.  

    Only when we are happy with ourselves can we make others happy.  I encourage you to 'be still' and get to know yourself and your thoughts in some quiet time.  God is with us, so we're never really alone.

Adversity

    When things are good, it is easy to go with the flow.  When faced with a challenge tho, it can take your whole armory to get you through it.  If you're smart, you know what things work for you and what works against you.
    I understand what this caption is referring to but it is hard to put into words.  Maybe because that heavenly spark is not all about us and our determination.  Peace from the Spirit can calm the storms in you enough to keep you from drowning.  Hope is a good promise to keep our focus on the positive side of the adverse conditions surrounding us at the moment.  Trust reaffirms our faith that 'the good work He began in us, will be completed.'
    Now if your spark evolving from strife isn't so heavenly, then impatience, anger, slander and harshness will surely follow.  We've all been there because 'no not one' of us is good.
    Should your spark be snuffed or put on the top of a hill?
     [Be careful what you blog about, you may get tested.  Our power went out while I wrote this...  adverse conditions to say the least]

Heart?

    I am reading a new book called 'The Almost Christian Discovered' by Matthew Mead from the 1600's.  It is as relevant now as way back then.  I've touched the topic of head knowledge recently but this book has a few ideas I'd like to share.
    Knowledge is two-fold, there is common knowledge and saving knowledge.  You can have knowledge without grace but not grace without knowledge.  What does that mean?  It means if your heart isn't in it and changed then the value of the knowledge is of little worth to you.  God may use it tho to benefit another person tho.  'Till the affections are made spiritual, there is no affection to things that are spiritual.'  It's just going through the motions.  It's like getting in a car, pushing the gas and turning the wheel but if you don't start the heart of the engine... you go nowhere.  'Saving knowledge joins affection and application.'
    'The preciousness of knowledge lies in its usefulness to the soul.'  The book uses Judas as an example.  All that he knew didn't affect his betraying heart. Take time to figure out where your heart is and then pursue the godly part into your life.
 

Computer Time

   Some people find computers a challenge in their lives but I find it challenging to do without mine.  I have the flu but the world doesn't stop and I need to keep in touch.  My laptop is my relay to my sphere of the world since I don't use the phone.  I am receiving prayers, well wishes and encouragement through my laptop so it's a blessing in many ways.
    I know we've all felt like Cliff at times, but just be patient with yourself and ask for help if needed.  There is never a dumb question.  There are clues that will point out your lack of computer savvy.. like saying 'www' before every website, pushing the keyboard keys like an old typewriter, or not knowing computer shorthand like 'lol' or 'idk'.  It's okay, none of us knew at some point.
    Part of staying young is keeping our minds sharp, so keep after it.

It's a God Thing

     I guess you've heard in the news about the Carnival Triumph being stranded in the Gulf of Mexico without power or common necessities.  I've been on two Carnival cruises and with stories like these, I think I'm done with them.
     In 2003 or 2004, Charlene and I took a 5 day cruise with some friends.  We left out of Galveston, TX to go to Cozumel, Playa del Carmen and Cancun.  Oh yes, you may be thinking beaches, sun and fun.  While that is true, it was not an incident free trip.  The night before arriving at the Cancun port, my breathing machine [my old bulky one that had to travel in a huge Rubbermaid tub] that I use to sleep with QUIT.  So here we are in the middle of the ocean and there is no sleep for me until we get a replacement machine.  We did have a spare one at home.. miles and hours away.  We called my parents and my dad took the first available flight out to Cancun.  He had to get there before the ship deported and headed back out to sea.  The 'God thing' is 4 fold... God gave me the strength to stay awake after a long day, my dad arrived safely and in time with the machine, God allowed me to postpone my needed sleep till that night so I could enjoy the one day in Cancun, and my true friend was by my side all along.
      Our plans may not always go smoothly but the One who directs my paths will see me through it.

The Narrow Way

     'The Way is narrow that leads to Life.'  We are all born onto the broad road of life but it will be few who choose the narrow path.  ''Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.''  Matthew 7;13-14
      I think the caption above depicts a few things about the narrow path.  Although some may conclude that it's boundaries are confining, it instead provides a sheltering protection from the world.  It is easy to follow the crowd but it takes true strength to stand alone.  To turn your back on the chosen path for you, takes a decision and effort on your part.  No one can walk or choose the road for you.
     Which road have you taken?  Are you headed for destruction or to eternal life?  Yes sometimes our journey has involved an exit ramp or two, but the U-turn involved is often stressful as we try to get back on the right and narrow road.  Look ahead and don't get distracted.

To Do List

     I think a good way to start off a new week is to have a plan or a to-do list.  It organizes our thoughts, sets our priorities and helps motivate us to get those things done.
    What if we remembered the above caption as an every day list?  I think our days would go alot smoother and definitely less stressful.

    Blessings are provided to us each and every day.  Shouldn't we recognize them with a grateful heart and not with an entitled heart?
    Kindness should be shown more than it is deserved.  God's compassion is our best role model to follow because the world is often not fair or kind.
    Control is not ours to claim.  We never had it nor will we ever.  Let the urge to control go and you'll enjoy a peace that comforts.
    A believer's heart is guided by the Holy Spirit so listen carefully.
    Your degree of productivity should be measured more by the quality of how you did it than how much you did.  'Do all things as if doing them for the Lord.'
     Breathe.........your breath rate can tell you if you need to slow down or calm down.  In any stressful situation, the first advice you'll get is 'just breathe.'

    What's on your to-do list for today?  We will get done what is important to us.

Princess Party

     It has been a very good Saturday morning.  Karla came over for the morning.  I received a very encouraging email from a friend who had read my blog book last night.  Then I got a visit from a houseful of princesses in their gorgeous formal wear.
     This month the tea party that Gloria and Charity put together was a Princess party.  The theme was outreach to others.  The girls all did their catwalk on the runway to show off their pretty dresses.  Twirls with flair, for sure.  As if their visit wasn't enough of a treat, they brought cookies and muddy buddies...yum.  I wasn't their only stop but they visited three other people.  I am glad I was a blessed recipient.
     Life lessons can be taught and include fun for all.  The effort it takes to teach manners and the importance of shining your light into the lives of others will reap rewards that are priceless.  Plant seeds of blessings in your life and you'll reap the rewards.

Stress

     Oh yes, that has been me on many occasions.  Even with the inability to drive now, I can be just as impatient from the passenger seat. Come on already, geez!!  I am a clock watcher and slow drivers are a common interference with that aspect of me.  I think driving under the speed limit is as bad or usually worse than driving over it.  Can I get an Amen?
     Do you know what the source of most of our stress comes from?  Ourselves.  Yes, it's a bitter pill to swallow but it's true.  The things that get under our skin may not even be a factor with others.  It can be odd when you're about to go postal and the person with you is as cool as a cucumber.  Don't they realize the urgency of the situation?
     Our priorities can help us put stress in its place.  Ask yourself, 'is this really worth getting all worked up over?'  Pick a phrase to embrace, 'love one another' or 'forgive them for they know not what they do' when your patience, over someone's actions, has reached its limit.

It's a God Thing

     How well did you sleep last night?  Did you toss and turn all night?  Often a bed that has been slept in overnight looks like a frazzled mess by morning.
     I started having to use a breathing machine to sleep at night about twenty-one years ago.  The type of machine has changed over the years.  The one thing that has remained the same is having to sleep on my back in one position all night long. Yes, every night for over two decades. You might be saying 'I couldn't do that I have to sleep on my side or move around or how ever you like to sleep.'  I thought the same things back in 1992.  The 'God thing' is the peace and rest He has given me each of these 7,665 nights to let go of my body's desire to move around.  This is what 'Be still and know that I am God' means in part to me.  He is in control and can give us the rest we need, when we turn our burdens over to Him.

What You See

     We've all been there with something on our nose, mouth, teeth, etc.  We've also all probably seen the evidence on others and pondered whether to tell them.  'Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you.'  Yes, tell them.. it should be a law.  Who hasn't been out and come home to discover some obvious embarrassment and thought 'why didn't anyone tell me?'
     What do you see most in people?  The flaws or the good qualities.  Colgate has a new ad out that proves people will notice something in your teeth before a physical deformity.  I looked at it myself and never even noticed the 7 fingered hand.
    Where is our focus on what we see and think of others?  Most people want to hide their weaknesses but it's not always possible.  Therefore, you embrace your weaknesses and they will make you stronger.  Our reactions to what we see as out of our norm says more about us than them.
     God cares more about the inside than the outside of each of us.  Is my body of 40-plus years and any physical hardware that helps me really going to matter in an eternal timespan?  No, but how you handle any suffering will.  So if anyone thinks more of your physical flaws than of you then they really don't know you at all.  It's their problem and loss, not yours.

Critical

    What was watching the Super Bowl like at your house?  We all can get high-spirited and enthusiastic about different things, some more than others.  I love to be around people that are excited and passionate about whatever they love, as long as it isn't disagreeable to me.
    The caption above sends more of a message to me about our criticism of others.  I know I've used the phrase 'what an idiot' more times than I can count.  I'm not saying it wasn't true, but it does speak arrogance.  When we think 'they should have done it this way, not like that' then we can come across as a know-it-all.
     Some people confuse criticism as advice.  They are not the same.  Advice is well intended and hopefully preventative to a downfall.  Criticism is negative, accusatory, and a hindsight opinion.
     I know we all have opinions and there is nothing wrong with that. When they become harsh and judgmental, maybe we should stop and take a look at our heart.  Not everything we think should come out of our mouths.

To Know Him

     I started a new book the other day called 'Not a Fan.'  It is about becoming a follower of Jesus, not just a fan.  The caption above relates to what I just read in chapter 3.  Simon the Pharisee knew all 'about' Jesus but didn't 'know' Him at all.  He had memorized books of the Bible but yet there was no application in his life, just knowledge.  Jesus was snubbed by him and not given the proper greetings for life in those times.  Who would be the one to show to be the true follower of Jesus?  The prostitute who walked up to the table uninvited, washed His feet with her tears and hair, and used up all of her oil on His head.  She surrendered all she had in pride, fear of embarrassment and valuables to show her heart was His.
     Knowledge without application is just facts on a shelf.  In Matthew 15;8, Jesus said the Pharisees honor me with their lips but their heart is far from me.  Do you have head knowledge without heart usage in your life?  What if you went to your child to show them how to use a fork and they said 'oh I know what to do, I'm just not going to do it.'  Yes, it'd be a teaching moment.  Jesus wants us to go on and do what we know to do too.

FBF MISSIONARY PRAYER REQUESTS..FEB 2013

FBF MISSIONARY PRAYER REQUESTS.......FEB 2013


TED AND PRISCILLA CLARK

1. Please pray that our little school at the camp will continue to be a blessing for all who attend.
2. We have had a record number of unsaved men working in the cappucino business this season.  Please pray
that this opportunity to share the gospel with them will have a daily and eternal influence in their lives.

MONICA SERNATINGER AND QUICO

1. Remember our dear sister Rosi in your prayers. She has been suffering with a sore in her deformed foot for over 25 years. The sore has gotten so big and infected that the doctors are considering amputating it. She begs to the Lord for healing, if it would be his will. Also, please pray for her financial provision. There is a slight possibility that she could get support from the SS since her dad is a resident of the US. She has begun the application process.

2. Recent contacts: We have been so blessed with the Tuohys. Please, pray for Johan and Claudia. Martin has started an evangelistic Bible study with them, and the whole family is so involved in reaching out!!! What a joy!! Also, please pray for my neighbor Vero. Since her mom, a Jehova Witness proselite, came to live with her late December, she has stopped coming to the studies. May their hearts come to Jesus!

LESLEY WOLFE

1.        Sure would be great to have the last three chapters of Mark comprehension checked and then sent to consultant by the end of March.  It’s very doable IF those who help me with the comprehension check are able to come as scheduled.  And I’d like to get as many of the remaining chapters of Genesis comp checked as well, and to my consultant during these next two months (only Genesis 27 thru 36 remain to be comprehension checked).  I have to say that it sure feels good seeing these two books come to this stage!

2.       Amy and Aaron have just had a visit from their language consultant.  Pray that the help and guidance that he was able to give them (Aaron in particular) will be followed, and continued and good progress will be made where language aptitude/ability is concerned.  

MARTIN AND HANSY TUOHY

1. New evangelistic Bible study with couple that seem genuinely interested. Please pray they do not get distracted from studying the Word and that the seeds would fall on good soil. 

2. We continue to seek God's will as to if we are to return to Denmark to stay or prepare to come back to MX long term.

 

BOBBY AND NAMATHA AVILEZ

 

1)      Please pray that we find the right builder that has his own tools. If you are not careful some people will pose as builders when they know fully well that they are expecting to sub-contract out the work making it more expensive.

2)      Pray that our kids would respond more to the prodding of the Holy Spirit than to peer pressure!

Don't Hesitate

     Well Karla and I were out saving yesterday.  That's our code word for shopping.  We had been in Target  buying our needs and wants.  While unloading our basket, she found my emery board that I intended to purchase.  She asked me if she should take it back in to pay for it.  I hesitated with my answer, even tho I knew the right thing to do.  Yes, I thought about how much time we had left and was it worth the trouble to have Karla go back in.  The devil was working quickly with my mind.  Karla interrupted my hesitation with 'you know God doesn't like ugly.'  We then agreed for her to go back in and make it right.
      Right is right and wrong is wrong.  There is no in between.  Sin tries to justify a wrong into an acceptable form but that doesn't make it anymore right.  Be quick to say yes and make all actions involving you pleasing to God.  Hesitation is only needed when preventing a wrong decision, not when doing what is right.

Remember

      We are so forgetful.  Who hasn't gone to the store and forgotten what you went for?  Who can remember the name of that familiar face without a panic moment of fear of embarrassment?  We need reminders for these trivial things.
      The list above is what God wants you to know, believe and remember.  His will is looking out for your behalf.  What is on your list to God?  I will trust You.  I will call on You.  I will praise You.  I will rely on Your Word.  I will follow You.  I believe in Your Son's saving grace.  The list is endless.
      Remember, where your heart is there you'll find your treasure.

It's a God Thing

     We are supposed to think of other's needs before our own.  Sometimes that is an easy task but other times it is a true sacrifice.  I don't know if I could do what was done for me in this story.
      When we moved into our house about 30 years ago, the previous owner, Mr. Finch, had a dog but couldn't take him immediately with him.  My parents agreed that the dog could stay and be picked up when he was able to.  Well if you know me at all, you know I can fall in love with a dog in less than 30 seconds.  Bosco and I were best buds immediately.  About 2 months later, Mr. Finch told my dad's uncle across the street that he was going to take Bosco home with him.  My uncle told him 'if you do, you're going to break one little girl's heart.'  I know it was a God thing that moved his heart to think of me before himself.  Mr.Finch lived alone and was a former POW veteran.  I'm sure it was quite a sacrifice to give up his long loved companion to me.  What a generous gift I received.  Bosco lived many years after that and was loved like family.  He was the first dog to get to come into the house.  He met me every day as I got off the bus and I looked for him as much as he did for me.

Who is in Control

     Tonight we are expecting severe weather with possible tornadoes.  It is wise to be aware and prepared but not to be overly anxious about it.  What will be is in God's control.  We can take physical cover but there is no greater cover than to pray for His protection over you.
     We must remember that His control is consistent, reliable and never failing.  The earth is defined by physical laws that we count on and plan our days by.  Who makes the sun rise and set?  It's certainly not BillyBob down in some hideaway control room.  It is the Creator and Controller of all things.
      Do you still think you're in control when you sleep at night?  I can assure you that God brought you into this world and He can and will take you out one day.
      As much as we think we would like to be in control, I think it is comforting to know we are not.

For the Week

    My focus has been off lately.  They say 'don't sweat the small stuff' but that's more easily said than done.  Isn't it the little irritations of daily life that get us so worked up?  It makes me think of the song lyric 'where is the love, the love, the love?'  Well I can surely tell you, don't look to me.
    The ultimate show of love should be our focus and is found on the Cross.  Why did Jesus have to die?  We are born with a separated relationship to God because of our sin and sin nature.  Jesus was the innocent sacrifice who paid our sin debt with His blood.  There is no forgiveness without a blood sacrifice,  the Bible says.
    So when you're critical of others, remember how much it cost to forgive you.  We all fall short  and need a Savior who forgives all.

To Love

    We don't have to wait till Valentine's day to show our love, nor should we.  God tells us 'to love one another' as a direct command.  He doesn't say when the time is right or when you feel like it.  He wants love to be shown thru all our actions.  'Without love, we are just a clanging gong.'
     I'm no expert on love and have yet to meet a human that is.  So going to the Bible is the best resource for help on advice.  Above are ten ways on how we can express our love to friends, family or strangers.  If we could only remember these and apply them in our daily lives, would there be peace on earth?
     'All you need is love, love is all you need.'

Your Witness

     How would you define your witness to the world?  If a stranger could define you in five words, what would they be?  As Christians, we should be in a process of transformation of becoming more like Christ.  You should be better than you were yesterday or at least learned something from it.  We don't change that quickly, do we? 

    I want to give two examples of people I do not know but was a witness to their walk.  Our reactions to bad situations can affect our witness to others.

    The other day my dad and I were in Kohl's waiting for a worker to find the flashlights that were on sale.  Another lady was waiting on customer service too and she was fit to be tied.  Her anger was as obvious as the smoke coming out of her ears.  As we checked out, I heard the worker apologize for the problems she encountered.  The lady then said 'well I'm sorry for yelling.'   Do our problems justify the means in which we get them solved?  No, Jesus never threw a hissy fit.

     Back during my cruising days, I was driving down Camp Robinson but looking backwards at some cute guys.  I totally rear ended the car in front of me.  It was totally my fault and I was ready for a blame-filled, tongue lashing.  The man got out and I let him speak first...maybe, hopefully I said I'm sorry first.  He looked at the cars and said, 'I don't see any damage.'  Are you sure?  We agreed no harm, no foul and I high-tailed it out of there for the night.  Being in the right doesn't always justify retribution but forgiveness pays off a greater reward.

     May your witness to the world be the same as the one you want it to be in your heart and mind.