Have you ever felt you had some kind of connection with someone but didn't know why or what it was? I started Sylvan Hills Elementary during the 5th grade. I made a best friend that year but in 6th grade I thought I had found 'the one.' lol His name was Paul Dunn. I thought we had alot in common. We were both slim, short and blonde. We differed tho in popularity, he was and I wasn't. I did what I could tho to try to win his heart. Well my first attempt was sharing half of my possessions, a fruit rollup. What doesn't say love like half of a strawberry fruit rollup? Okay, so a bolder attempt was made. We were standing outside on the lil porch of our trailer-housed classroom with each of our best friend's at our sides. I asked Paul, 'Do you wanna kiss?' He was like, 'um, um, I don't know?' I said, 'well that's ok' and handed my best friend a Hershey's kiss. He said, 'oh, okay yea.' [I was braver, way back when.] As we went on to jr. high, I didn't have very many classes with him but my crush never ended till we both went to different high schools.
Sometime after I moved back here, I saw on channel 7's news program a story on a Paul Dunn Golf Tournament [ http://www.pauldunnclassic.com/ ] Could it be the same guy? I looked into it on the internet and it was. Paul had been stricken as an adult with ALS. [Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), often referred to as "Lou Gehrig's Disease," is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and the spinal cord.] Paul did get married and had a child before losing his fight with the disease.
Was that our hidden connection? That we would both fight a neurological disease in our lives. Paul had many, many friends so a memory of me may not even have ever crossed his mind. But if it did, I hope that my struggles and perserverance at that young age encouraged him during his fight.
You may never know if or how you influenced someone's life, so make sure you are a positive influence.
