We all have something to say but these 5 questions could save us all alot of grief. The tongue can be quick and harsh if not controlled. 'True' is very important. We don't want to start a rumor or bear false witness. 'Helpful' --is what you wana say beneficial, encouraging? Or are your words adding flame to the fire? 'Inspiring' words can cause great things to happen. Words that motivate others often spread joy beyond that one person. 'Necessary' words can prevent harm or steer someone in the right direction. Your opinion is not always necessary tho, a listening ear may be all thats needed. 'Kind' words are always best. Words enriched with praise, appreciation, and love can go so much further in getting your point across.
Yes, its easier said than done but just 'T-H-I-N-K' on it before you speak abruptly.
Love this! I'm always telling my girls "think". Do you want someone to talk to you the way you are talking?? I need to ask myself that question too.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Angie. And yes, it does go right along with mine. Very practical. Speaking before thinking is DANGEROUS. That goes well with Philippians 4:8--"Finally brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, THINK about these things."
ReplyDeleteThis was sooo good, Angie! I love the words for "THINK". Every now and then (just when I need it, I might add), God gives me another lesson on the tongue. We had another discussion in our lifegroup just last Sunday night. What a sharp, dangerous object that little body part can be! Or, as you stated, it can be encouraging, uplifting and loving by the words we choose (and THINK) to say. Thank you again for another wonderful message!! They are always so inspiring and TRUE!!
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