How many times have you wanted things to be different but are unwilling to change? Whether it's work, relationships or whatever you're not happy with, make a plan of change. People complain about different aspects of their lives but the idea of doing something different hasn't entered their minds yet. So much talent is lost in the world because people lack the courage to show it. It does take desire and courage to take action in a different direction, other than your routine. It's not going to be easy but it will be worth it.
This is true also in becoming a new believer. Your perspective will change and choices should too. Your desire for a relationship with God will help you to let go of your wants of the old self. To stay strong, we need daily encouragement to not fall back.
How strong is your desire to fly? Is the fear of change holding you back? A whole new way of living in this world awaits you. Take the first step out of your cocoon.